FAQs

FAQ1: Why should I do Telephone Coaching? Won’t I need marriage counseling in a counselor’s office to save my marriage?  There are several amazing benefits of telephone coaching over in-office therapy.  The foremost benefit is that you can coach with an INFIDELITY EXPERT who is not in your area!  Small towns and rural areas do not have counselors specially trained in recovering after an affair.  Even in some of the “big cities” It is hard to find someone trained specifically for saving marriages after an affair!  Telephone coaching brings the expert TO YOU. 

Telephone coaching, can be done in the privacy of your own home.  You choose the time and date. You can be in your P.J.’s at home, in a dress or three piece suit at work, or you can call from your cell phone when you’re traveling. It’s entirely up to you. In fact, we’ve discovered that we can help people by telephone that we could never have reached in person. 

FAQ2: What’s so special about an Affaircare Coach? Affaircare coaches are PRO-MARRIAGE!!!  We get contacted by people every day with stories that would amaze you. People call who have struggling with the affair on their own for months.  Or people email who have been in “counseling” for years…and they’re making NO progress!  We’ve received comment from people who are worse off than they were when they started!  We hear horror stories about therapists, pastors, and marriage counselors who have pronounced a marriage “dead on arrival” after just one session.  Friends and relatives often encourage the loyal spouse to just “move on” and find someone better. You might feel as if you’re the only one in the world who believes your marriage is worth saving, but now, you’re not alone. We believe marriage is a life-long covenant that is sanctified in the eyes of God.  Affaircare also believes that most divorces in our country are unnecessary. We see people and marriages change all the time. Yours can too–we know!FAQ3: How do Affaircare coaches make marriages happy and loving again? You aren’t born knowing how to have great relationships; you have to learn how. We’re convinced that most divorces happen because people are naturally sinful and are not taught God’s view of marriage, the definition of love according to the Bible, or the skills to find their way out of trying and frustrating marital problems. Affaircare coaches are experienced nouthetic counselors who can teach you the Biblical Principles you need to make your marriage honoring to God.  Along the way, we can also help with tools to improve communication and break free from hurtful relationship ruts.  FAQ4: Is coaching confidential? Do coaches have ethics and guidelines?Your call to an Affaircare coach will not be kept a secret from your spouse, and we will not lie for you. Confidentiality is respected where possible, information is safeguarded, and the best interest and well being of the counselee is preserved.  Just like counselors and therapists, coaches have standards of conduct and guidelines. Rest assured, Affaircare has implemented a variety of security measures to maintain the safety and privacy of your personal information.  Here is our privacy policy.

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