It may have gone something like this:
They first start catching up, and it’s all “How you been doing? What have you been up to?”Then it would have morphed into talk about:
- What they’ve been doing since they parted
- Their significant others since they parted
- Their families
- Their favorite music, movies, etc.
- Their spouses
- You
- Your job
- How your job keeps you away
- How lonely they gets when you’re away
- How they looks forward to their conversations all the time now
- How s/he loves talking to him/her
- How s/he gets “bored” talking to you
- How you don’t always listen
- How you’re not “perfect”
- How you can be so insensitive sometimes
- How s/he wonders if s/he would have stayed with “the old friend”
- How the “old friend” understands him/her
- How “old friend” knows how to make him/her feel good
- How you fail at this
- How you are such an a**hole
- How s/he feels young again
- How s/he hasn’t felt this happy with you in so long
- How the “old friend” is a better person than you’ll ever be
- How s/he wants to see the “old friend” again
- How they can meet under the radar
- How s/he has thought of leaving you
- How s/he ever could have fallen for a jerk like you
- How the “old friend” is his/her soul mate
- How s/he made a big mistake leaving the “old friend”
- How s/he made an even bigger mistake marrying you
- How they were meant to be together…
…get the picture?
____________Thanks to F-102 at Talk About Marriage!!