Comments on: Understanding Your Betrayed Spouse…nouthetic, Christian care after an affair.Tue, 16 Jul 2013 17:55:07 +0000hourly1 Gutpunch’s Journal – Page 179, 14 Jul 2013 05:51:35 +0000[…] Re: Gutpunch’s Journal Understanding Your Betrayed Spouse | AFFAIRCARE […]]]>By: Mark, 08 Jul 2013 15:23:15 +0000 I ask why you cheated on your husband? My wife cheated on me. I found out 3 months ago from some emails. It was only going on for a week, but she bought the hotel for them. I can’t explain the hurt I feel. We are trying to make it work for the kids, but she still has to have contact with the other guy. That makes me worry.]]>By: J, 07 Jul 2013 03:29:36 +0000 am the unfaithful spouse. I had multiple affairs which cover the 10 year span. My husband just found them 2 months ago.We are at the initial stage of recovery. He has not decided to forgive me yet. I really want my marriage back and want to help him to get over all the pain, anger, frustration, and disbelief. But I did not know what to do. My husband, although in his deepest pain,sent this article to me. I felt so thankful for the advice shown. It gives me hope and ways to rebuild my relationship.]]>By: Mark, 21 Jun 2013 15:40:18 +0000 wish my wife would find this also. It’s only been a couple months for me and the feelings that are talked about are exactly how I feel.]]>By: D, 19 Jun 2013 21:42:39 +0000 cheated on my husband. The single biggest mistake of my life because I love him so much. I never stopped loving him. We are going through the same thing. Everything I do is transparent, but he keeps all of his things locked up; phone, email acct., etc. He is also living the single life and telling some that he is divorced. I dont know if this is all a reaction to my betrayal or if maybe he is just done. I do know that it is breaking my heart.]]>By: gary, 28 May 2013 15:40:15 +0000 want to thank you from the bottom of my heart my wife had an affair for 2 years I read all your info on infidelity and made my wife read it also to understand what I was going through I think this article opened her mind to what she did to me I still love her and I forgave her this has been the worst month but also the best month of 14 years married we are communicating making love again and we are both happy I still hurt but it is a little better each day thanks affaircare for all your help through the most difficult thing I have ever been through in my life]]>By: d, 17 Apr 2013 16:51:26 +0000 you for sharing. We are in similar situations. I wish you the best.]]>By: K, 16 Apr 2013 16:00:02 +0000 was in a bad spot in my life and it put a lot of strain on my marriage so I stoped talking and shout down. I am trying to do right by him and step up to my responsibility. Bottom line is that there is no reason to cheat I should have steped up and fixed it instead I made it as bad as possible.]]>By: d, 10 Apr 2013 20:33:41 +0000 did you cheat?]]>By: Elizabeth T, 02 Apr 2013 19:25:50 +0000 article has been AMAZING to me!!!!! I am so grateful for it!! It helped clarify a lot of my feelings for myself, but also helped my husband understand what I was going through. Thanks you!]]>