Welcome to Affaircare!


There’s a lot to do here on our community, which is dedicated to committed, godly marriages.

If you are here because you just found out your spouse is having an affair, there is hope. Jeremiah 17:7 tells us: “Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in Him.”  If you are here to make your marriage stronger after an affair or to build an affair-free marriage, we welcome you!

We have MANY WAYS to help you save your marriage from an affair or help you keep your marriage affair-free:

First you will probably want to become part of our regular community, and there are three ways to do it!  You can read our weekly blog post, listen to it as a podcast via iTunes, Stitcher, or Blubrry, or watch the video on our YouTube channel!

If you just heard “I love you but I’m not IN LOVE with you”, you may want to start on our “Just Found Out” page.  For more in depth information on infidelity, take a look at our “Articles” page to start to learn about affairs and infidelity–how it happens and why.  Get to know our basic concepts, our terminology, and our steps.

Next, you may want to enjoy some of the questionnaires on our “Quizzes” page. These questionnaires are specially designed to help you and your spouse learn more about yourselves and identify ways in which you are different and ways in which you compliment each other.


Our new book is now available: “Caring for Your Marriage After an Affair”

You may also want to subscribe to our Affaircare site by clicking on the button up above, so you get notifications when we post a new blog post.  You may want to subscribe to our newsletter.  Or you may want to download our e-book “Caring For Your Marriage After An Affair.

If you would like to talk to the Affaircare community, we encourage you to comment on a blog post and get responses from our regulars. On the other hand if you just have a Prayer Request, just leave it here as a comment and we’d be happy to pray for you and for each other. 

If you need more specific nouthetic coaching, you can contact us many, many ways! Check out our “Contact Us” page or email us at so we can speak to you and your spouse together and help lead you back to reconciliation.

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