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How do you help your kids when your spouse is having an affair?  What is the ideal? What do kids need? What are some common pitfalls that parents make? And how can God heal broken hearts–yours and theirs?

In this week’s episode, we continue our series “Helping Your Kids Survive an Affair” by examining what kids need to do in order to deal with a parent having an affair. There are five areas in which your children will be struggling, and we go over each one of the areas to describe what they need.

  • Understand what’s going on
  • Deal with losses
  • Deal with anger
  • Deal with guilt feelings
  • Accept the finality–it will never “be the way it was”

If you’d like to learn more about “Helping Your Kids Survive an Affair,” join us next week when we’ll be discussing some common pitfalls that parents make when their is a major crisis in the family.

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One thought on “Help Your Kids Survive an Affair #2 – What Kids Need to Do”

  1. lost33years says:January 14, 2015 at 7:24 AM

    How do I help our children when their own father used them lied to them about me about us about his prostitutes and involved by manipulation our children in hiding his years of abuse with lies of commission lies of omission and deliberately lying and making them choose to hide his serial cheating how do any of us recover from his intentional abuse?

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