AFFAIRCARE

…nouthetic, Christian care after an affair.

Menu

Search for:September 2, 2014Christian, Fidelity, Podcast

How do people fall in love? How do you get that loving feeling back for your spouse after something like infidelity?

This month we are letting you know about our new “90 Days to Save Your Marriage and Save You” program by introducing you to our most Basic Concepts. This week we are going over the Love Kindlers and today is the very first one: Love Kindler #1 Emotional Commitment. What does that mean?

~Cindy

 

[audio: https://s3.amazonaws.com/affaircare-podcast/Emotional-Commitment.mp4](function(g){g.__ATA.initAd({sectionId:130712711, width:300, height:250});})(window);

Do you love it? SHARE IT!!

Post navigation

5 thoughts on “Love Kindler #1 Emotional Commitment [Podcast]”

  1. Mary Grogan says:September 2, 2014 at 11:04 AM

    please sign me up. Im going thru something now that I need all the help . My husband cheated and got on dating sites , I found out and he abandoned me, after 18 yrs. I am devastated.. please some one call me or email me……please get back to me. I need to talk to someone.

    Reply

    1. Cindy at Affaircare says:September 2, 2014 at 11:31 PM

      Hi Mary,

      I am so sorry we are meeting under circumstances like this. I’ll try to contact you tomorrow by email first, okay? And if you need to talk before I can connect with you, my email is affaircare@gmail.com.

      ~Cindy

      Reply

  2. Maddy says:September 2, 2014 at 12:56 PM

    My husband’s adulterous partner is a pharmacist who supplied him with testosterone, steroids, Hgh, and Viagra ( without a doctors prescription).
    How much influence does taking all these drugs have his brain (I know what they are doing south of the belt buckle) on feeling “he found the love of his life” and his choice to leave our family?

    Reply

    1. Cindy at Affaircare says:September 2, 2014 at 6:18 PM

      Hi Maddy,

      Naturally we are not doctors and have not had medical training, so we can’t really definitively answer your question. However I have read on the internet that low testosterone can be a reason for lower libido, so it stands to reason that if you raise the testosterone, you raise the sex drive. As I understand it, Testosterone is a steroid hormone that decreases as a man ages, HGH is a growth hormone that people mistakenly think is “anti-aging,” and Viagra just helps a man with decreased circulation get and keep a woody.

      So I’m no doctor, but I’d say those guys were concerned about his sexual performance and took pills to try to do better. Did it mess with his brain and his decision-making abilities? Who knows! What I do know is that a Disloyal Spouse in the midst of their affair is NOT thinking clearly no matter whether they are on drugs or not.

      ~Cindy

      Reply

  3. Mary Grogan says:June 28, 2015 at 11:16 AM

    can you please send more of these, I only get once in a time… also can you send something to help me , my husband was caught on dating sites, left me abandoned and moved into with another woman after married to me for 18 yrs, I had no clue he was nothapy he said he was forever, I am devastated over this and cant get over him being with another woman and aftr we had so many memories.. Please help… thanks

    Reply

Leave a Reply

GravatarEmail (required) (Address never made public)Name (required)WebsiteWordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change )

Cancel

Connecting to %s

var highlander_expando_javascript = function(){var input = document.createElement( ‘input’ ), comment = jQuery( ‘#comment’ );if ( ‘placeholder’ in input ) {comment.attr( ‘placeholder’, jQuery( ‘.comment-textarea label’ ).remove().text() );}// Expando Mode: start small, then auto-resize on first clicktext lengthjQuery( ‘#comment-form-identity’ ).hide();jQuery( ‘#comment-form-subscribe’ ).hide();jQuery( ‘#commentform .form-submit’ ).hide();comment.css( { ‘height’:’10px’ } ).one( ‘focus’, function() {var timer = setInterval( HighlanderComments.resizeCallback, 10 )jQuery( this ).animate( { ‘height’: HighlanderComments.initialHeight } ).delay( 100 ).queue( function(n) { clearInterval( timer ); HighlanderComments.resizeCallback(); n(); } );jQuery( ‘#comment-form-identity’ ).slideDown();jQuery( ‘#comment-form-subscribe’ ).slideDown();jQuery( ‘#commentform .form-submit’ ).slideDown();});}jQuery(document).ready( highlander_expando_javascript );

Notify me of new comments via email.

Notify me of new posts via email.

And while you’re shopping on Amazon, don’t forget our book: “Affaircare: Caring for Your Marriage After an Affair”!

Follow our blog

Subscribe to Affaircare and get tips in your email about keeping your marriage affair-free or saving your marriage after an affair!
.

Join 841 other followers

Do you want help delivered right to your inbox?

Get our book! “Affaircare: Caring for Your Marriage After an Affair”

The Affaircare Feed

 RSS – Posts

Download the Affaircare Podcast

On iTunes:
On Stitcher:

Affaircare Romance Calendar

Affaircare will PRAY with you!

Affaircare on Facebook

Affaircare on Facebook

(function(d, s, id) { var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; if (d.getElementById(id)) return; js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id; js.src = ‘//connect.facebook.net/en_US/sdk.js#xfbml=1&appId=249643311490&version=v2.3’; fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs); }(document, ‘script’, ‘facebook-jssdk’));

Follow me on Twitter

Watch us, Pin Us, Link to us, Join our Circle!


Download the Affaircare APP!

Search for:NetworkedBlogsBlog:AffaircareTopics: Infidelity, Marriage, Christian  Follow my blogCreative Commons License
This entire site, the articles and the blogs are licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License.

__________________________

AFFAIRCARE claims no credit for any images posted on this site unless otherwise noted. Images on this blog are copyright to its respectful owners. If there is an image appearing on this blog that belongs to you and do not wish for it appear on this site, please E-mail with a link to said image and it will be promptly removed

Map of our Readers

Proud Member of Blogging 101

Blogging U.Real Time Web Analytics Clicky The Twenty Thirteen Theme.Create a free website or blog at WordPress.com.!function(d,s,id){var js,fjs=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0],p=/^http:/.test(d.location)?’http’:’https’;if(!d.getElementById(id)){js=d.createElement(s);js.id=id;js.src=p+”://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js”;fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js,fjs);}}(document,”script”,”twitter-wjs”);/* */var WPGroHo = {“my_hash”:””};/* ]]> *///initialize and attach hovercards to all gravatarsjQuery( document ).ready( function( $ ) {if (typeof Gravatar === “undefined”){return;}if ( typeof Gravatar.init !== “function” ) {return;}Gravatar.profile_cb = function( hash, id ) {WPGroHo.syncProfileData( hash, id );};Gravatar.my_hash = WPGroHo.my_hash;Gravatar.init( ‘body’, ‘#wp-admin-bar-my-account’ );});/* */var HighlanderComments = {“loggingInText”:”Logging Inu2026″,”submittingText”:”Posting Commentu2026″,”postCommentText”:”Post Comment”,”connectingToText”:”Connecting to %s”,”commentingAsText”:”%1$s: You are commenting using your %2$s account.”,”logoutText”:”Log Out”,”loginText”:”Log In”,”connectURL”:”https://affaircare.wordpress.com/public.api/connect/?action=request”,”logoutURL”:”https://affaircare.wordpress.com/wp-login.php?action=logout&_wpnonce=0aa76b7307″,”homeURL”:”http://affaircare.com/”,”postID”:”2922″,”gravDefault”:”blank”,”enterACommentError”:”Please enter a comment”,”enterEmailError”:”Please enter your email address here”,”invalidEmailError”:”Invalid email address”,”enterAuthorError”:”Please enter your name here”,”gravatarFromEmail”:”This picture will show whenever you leave a comment. Click to customize it.”,”logInToExternalAccount”:”Log in to use details from one of these accounts.”,”change”:”Change”,”changeAccount”:”Change Account”,”comment_registration”:””,”userIsLoggedIn”:””,”isJetpack”:”0″,”text_direction”:”ltr”};/* ]]> */Follow

Follow “AFFAIRCARE”

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 841 other followers

Build a website with WordPress.comtry {window._ttf = window._ttf || [];_ttf.push({ pid : 25030 ,lang : “en” ,slot : ‘.ebzNative’ ,minSlot : 0 ,format : “inread” ,components: { skip: {delay: 0} } ,css : “margin: 0px 0px;”});(function (d) { var js, s = d.getElementsByTagName(‘script’)[0]; js = d.createElement(‘script’); js.async = true; js.src = ‘//cdn.teads.tv/media/format.js’; s.parentNode.insertBefore(js, s);})(window.document);} catch(e) {}//>window.WPCOM_sharing_counts = {“http://affaircare.com/2014/09/02/love-kindler-1-emotional-commitment/”:2922};var windowOpen;jQuery(document).on( ‘ready post-load’, function(){jQuery( ‘a.share-facebook’ ).on( ‘click’, function() {if ( ‘undefined’ !== typeof windowOpen ){ // If there’s another sharing window open, close it.windowOpen.close();}windowOpen = window.open( jQuery(this).attr( ‘href’ ), ‘wpcomfacebook’, ‘menubar=1,resizable=1,width=600,height=400’ );return false;});});(function(d, s, id) { var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; if (d.getElementById(id)) return; js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id; js.src = ‘//connect.facebook.net/en_US/sdk.js#xfbml=1&appId=249643311490&version=v2.3’; fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs); }(document, ‘script’, ‘facebook-jssdk’));jQuery( document.body ).on( ‘post-load’, function() {if ( ‘undefined’ !== typeof FB ) {FB.XFBML.parse();}} );!function(d,s,id){var js,fjs=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0],p=/^http:/.test(d.location)?’http’:’https’;if(!d.getElementById(id)){js=d.createElement(s);js.id=id;js.src=p+’://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js’;fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js,fjs);}}(document, ‘script’, ‘twitter-wjs’);jQuery( document ).ready( function() { jQuery.getScript( ‘//platform.linkedin.com/in.js?async=true’, function success() { IN.init(); });});jQuery( document.body ).on( ‘post-load’, function() {if ( typeof IN != ‘undefined’ )IN.parse();});// Pinterest shared resourcesvar s = document.createElement(“script”);s.type = “text/javascript”;s.async = true;s.setAttribute(‘data-pin-hover’, true);s.src = window.location.protocol”//assets.pinterest.com/js/pinit.js”;var x = document.getElementsByTagName(“script”)[0];x.parentNode.insertBefore(s, x);// if ‘Pin it’ button has ‘counts’ make container widerjQuery(window).load( function(){ jQuery( ‘li.share-pinterest a span:visible’ ).closest( ‘.share-pinterest’ ).width( ’80px’ ); } );function renderGooglePlus1() {if ( ‘undefined’ === typeof gapi ) {return;}jQuery( ‘.g-plus’ ).each(function() {var $button = jQuery( this );if ( ! $button.data( ‘gplus-rendered’ ) ) {gapi.plusone.render( this, {href: $button.attr( ‘data-href’ ),size: $button.attr( ‘data-size’ ),annotation: $button.attr( ‘data-annotation’ )});$button.data( ‘gplus-rendered’, true );}});}(function() {var po = document.createElement(‘script’); po.type = ‘text/javascript’; po.async = true;po.src = ‘https://apis.google.com/js/plusone.js’;po.innerHTML = ‘{“parsetags”: “explicit”}’;po.onload = renderGooglePlus1;var s = document.getElementsByTagName(‘script’)[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(po, s);})();jQuery( document.body ).on( ‘post-load’, renderGooglePlus1 );Send to Email AddressYour NameYour Email Address document.getElementById(‘jetpack-source_f_name’).value = ”; Post was not sent – check your email addresses!Email check failed, please try againSorry, your blog cannot share posts by email./* */var JetpackEmojiSettings = {“base_url”:”https://s0.wp.com/wp-content/mu-plugins/emoji/twemoji/”};/* ]]> *//* */var sharing_js_options = {“lang”:”en”,”counts”:”1″};/* ]]> */// (function() {try{ if ( window.external &&’msIsSiteMode’ in window.external) { if (window.external.msIsSiteMode()) { var jl = document.createElement(‘script’); jl.type=’text/javascript’; jl.async=true; jl.src=’/wp-content/plugins/ie-sitemode/custom-jumplist.php’; var s = document.getElementsByTagName(‘script’)[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(jl, s); } }}catch(e){}})();// ]]>var skimlinks_pub_id = “725X584219″var skimlinks_sitename = “affaircare.wordpress.com”;%d bloggers like this:

    _tkq = window._tkq || [];_stq = window._stq || [];_tkq.push([‘storeContext’, {‘blog_id’:’13071271′,’blog_tz’:’-7′,’user_lang’:’en’,’blog_lang’:’en’,’user_id’:’0′}]);_stq.push([‘view’, {‘blog’:’13071271′,’v’:’wpcom’,’tz’:’-7′,’user_id’:’0′,’post’:’2922′,’subd’:’affaircare’}]);_stq.push([‘extra’, {‘crypt’:’UE5tW3cvZGQ/JUs1UEpSWU9oLlImW0RodndBQ21tWDdUUyZSfiUtdVo5QkNvUWtpaVZGVV9HblsrcXpNQV8sbUZxTUYrdlNVZWp8PXpRZmkwL1M9MVJNbnF3Ry5xclhIK1ZlSmJQSWYvZVJZY2R5Z3EsfCxmZm0mS005OHxaLmg0cmMsTFIxUEMxdERXUC9FUFFPPT1QTSZuX29nLUtxRGt2LTl1aXwuR2R5d3JMVWRWK19OQ3Jxbm5qam1zdltOU1UuTHRBb3dwW3R+cixWTDBuR1FTanN2ZkgsOS4sLltkd3xGQnh+PS4/WTdxRE1xb2Z3SE03WklVW0JYcjBwWHQ0NEtCJitrbGFIdHpDaVNdbmwyemx6bXI=’}]);_stq.push([ ‘clickTrackerInit’, ‘13071271’, ‘2922’ ]);if ( ‘object’ === typeof wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info ) {wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.init();var mobileStatsQueryString = “”;if( false !== wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.matchedPlatformName )mobileStatsQueryString += “&x_”‘mobile_platforms”=’wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.matchedPlatformName;if( false !== wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.matchedUserAgentName )mobileStatsQueryString += “&x_”‘mobile_devices”=’wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.matchedUserAgentName;if( wpcom_mobile_user_agent_info.isIPad() )mobileStatsQueryString += “&x_”‘ipad_views”=”views’;if( “” != mobileStatsQueryString ) {new Image().src = document.location.protocol’//pixel.wp.com/g.gif?v=wpcom-no-pv’mobileStatsQueryString’&baba=’Math.random();}}

By admin

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *