Today is Day 21 of Happiness Month and it will be continuing all month long. This all started at the Secret Society of Happy People and if you want to pop over there and become an Amused Member, you can get a Free 31 Types of Happiness poster. As you can tell by my daily #HappinessHappens tweets and Facebook posts, I’ve been a member for a long, long time!
Today, to add happiness to your life: Nostalgia! Happiness gets a shot in the arm when you “remember when…” Remember those Christmases as a kid? Your bestest bestest friend? That first date? The birth of your first child? See that smile on your face? Take a little time to be nostalgic today.
The word “nostalgia” is a noun. It means:
- A sentimental longing for the past, typically for a period or place with happy personal associations.
- The evocation of these feelings or tendencies.
Remember how much you were looking forward to loving someone? Remember when you first met your spouse? Remember how handsome he was or how pretty she looked? Remember how fun it was getting to know him/her? Remember how much time you spent together? Remember how you told him/her EVERYTHING? Remember how you did all those special little things for him or her? Remember how nervous you were when you got engaged? Remember the wedding? And the honeymoon!
Over the next days, we’ll be going over all 31 ways to Add Happiness Every Day. You know too often I hear young people say “He doesn’t make me happy” or “I wish she would make me happy” but you know what? Happiness is not something that someone else “makes” you feel. You make choices in your life that can affect your happiness….and ultimately you CHOOSE whether to be happy every day or not. You can also choose to do things that would add happiness to your life every single today.
- Happiness Month! Day 18: Inspiration -and- Save Our Marriage Saturday (affaircare.com)
- Happiness Month! Day 17: Humor (affaircare.com)
- Happiness Month! Day 16: Hopeful (affaircare.com)