To learn more about your Myers-Briggs personality and your spouse’s, and the natural differences between your two personalities, you can email David or Cindy -OR- go to Personality Pages: The Personality Type Portraits.
To learn more about your Love Language and your spouse’s, and the natural differences between your two languages, you can email David or Cindy -OR- go to 5 Love Languages.
Have some of your actions been “extinguishing” the love flame in your marriage? Take this Love Extinguishers Questionnaire and try to answer as your spouse would, or even better yet–you and your spouse both take it and share your answers with each other:
Back in the day, you and your spouse were drawn together like magnets! Some of HIS actions and character traits were attractive to HER…and likewise some of HER actions and character traits were attractive to HIM. Find out which actions and which traits really kindle your spouse’s love flame and really turn it into a blaze of passion! Take this Love Kindlers Questionnaire and try to answer as your spouse would, or even better yet–you and your spouse both take it and share your answers with each other:
The Marriage Quiz ~ by Steven Stosny, Ph.D.
In our Age of Entitlement, one of the biggest strains on marriage is the presumptive right to have your partner make you happy. This unfortunate presumption persists even though empirical evidence shows that happy people make happy marriages. … the Marriage Quiz (is) designed to uncover self-doubt and turn it into motivation to heal, improve, and repair. It works by asking how loving, compassionate, supportive, flexible, fair, and sexy you think you are and then comparing your answers to what you think your spouse thinks of you. …Though not fool-proof, the Marriage Quiz opens a small window of opportunity to see that your marital problems originate in the way you interact with each other rather than the character or diagnosis or childhood of your partner.
Are you a victim of domestic violence? Think you might be but you’re unsure? There are so many people who are involved in domestically violent relationships–men and women–who either don’t recognize it or don’t want to admit it to themselves. When a woman tries to hit a man or slaps him…that it domestic violence! And yet many/most men wouldn’t think of that. We all know when man *hits* a woman it’s domestic violence, but that’s only physical violence. Did you know there’s also verbal abuse, mental abuse, and emotional abuse? And abuse of ANY kind can leave lifelong scars–whether is physical or emotional abuse, whether it’s a male or a female.
If you think your partner MAY be abusing you, please take this Domestic Violence Screening Test:
