You’ve found evidence that proves there is an affair. You’ve done all the steps to end the affair, and now you and your disloyal spouse have made the decision to try to reconcile. WHAT DO YOU DO!!!???
Today we begin the final week of our Basic Concepts series: Recovering After an Affair. There are specific steps you can take to slowly, one-step upon the previous, build a whole new, healthy marriage. There is no guarantee your marriage will recover, but these steps will give you the best opportunity to recover after the affair ends.
In today’s episode we discuss the things that need to be in place BEFORE you can even begin reconciling:
1) No Contact with the Affair Partner
2) Transparent Honesty
3) Agreement by BOTH spouses to work on yourself and the marriage.
Use the Sample No-Contact Letters that you can find here: http://affaircare.com/articles/sample-consequences-letters/
Our new program, “90 Days to Save Your Marriage and Save You” will teach you and how your spouse how to recover after infidelity. To introduce our new program, I’m reviewing our Basic Concepts all month!